When Friendships End…

May 9, 2023 Aphsie 2 comments

You know what they say? “All good things come to an end,” yeah it’s an unfortunate truth, isn’t it?.. 

Every time I find myself tripping over the flame of a friendship slowly fading, I remind myself that this friendship found me whole and whole I’ll be if/once it ends 🔥 

If there’s one lesson my mother’s passing taught me, it’s that it’s very possible to lose a loved one (for a moment, season or forever), and you’re also just as likely to survive, move on and thrive 🙌🏾 

Growing up, my greatest fear was the passing of any or both of my parents. I matured exponentially when my beloved Mamzo passed and when I survived it, it was life’s rude awakening for me – I said that to say this: life goes on 💯 

Might I carry on to quote Drake’s lyrics from his current hit song: 

“I’ve been losin’ friends and findin’ peace - that sound like a fair trade to me.”
Fair Trade Lyrics

I’m also a believer in that when one door closes, another one opens – it’s the exact same concept that applies here my good people. Now this is also me reminding myself that I don’t need to be bitter or resentful when someone revokes their friendship from me and to simply let it go 🕊 

Lol, but I must mention that I’m BFFs with karma and that girl has been very loyal to me ❤️‍🔥🙌🏾😭 

But jokes aside, friendships are also like farts – we need to just let them flow and once we force things then the results might be 💩 

Yours – but mine first,

P.S.  Thanks for having a read & I look forward to hearing your thoughts on this topic below…

2 Comments on “When Friendships End…

  1. Tyler Perry could not have said it better.. people that come into your life for a season, they were not meant to be there always… they are nor bad people they just couldn’t go where you’re going..

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