Today, I’m officially stepping into my early thirties! It’s 17 October 2024, and I’m now 31 years old!
My heart is overflowing with gratitude because, as I shared in My Testimony, there was a time I almost didn’t make it to 21. This year, I celebrate a milestone – a decade filled with grace, growth, and endless blessings.
The phrase “Thirty, Flirty & Thriving” is one I’ve lovingly borrowed from one of my favourite 90s classics, 13 Going on 30. I plan to embrace and manifest that energy all throughout this decade!
Yes, it’s getting real, ladies and gentlemen – I’m now at the shores of my thirties, ready to ride the waves, gather my lessons, and celebrate every win along the way!
I must admit, it took me a while to warm up to the idea of turning 30. I always had my twenties in mind, but now that I’ve arrived, I couldn’t be more excited! Here’s what makes me look forward to embracing the big 3-0:
Another Year of Life
After surviving a near-death experience, as detailed in My Testimony, I’ve learned to be deeply grateful for each new day. This year, I celebrate not just turning 31, but a decade filled with life and grace.
A Clearer Mind
I’ve always been sober-minded, but with age comes even greater clarity. It’s like a growth magic spell has been cast on me, and I love experiencing it. As I continue to mature, I look forward to seeing how much clearer my thoughts will become, and the confidence that will naturally follow.
True Independence
Hello, adulting! I used to think I was independent, but growing up under the care of loving parents sometimes made it easy to forget just how much they provided. Now, I’m excited to take everything my elders have taught me and apply it to my own life, handling real-world challenges with grace and wisdom.
An Extra Dose of Respect
Okay, let’s be real – this one’s a biggie! One thing I struggled with in my youth was not always being taken seriously just because I was young. It was even worse before I gained weight; even my peers treated me like a baby! But now, I’m a grown woman, and I’m ready for my well-deserved R-E-S-P-E-C-T 🎶
I’m also incredibly excited for the growth and establishment of my business, UP_PHELELE. Every milestone we hit is a blessing, and I’m committed to seeing it flourish.
As for love? After sharing my journey in Lessons Called Exes, I look forward to settling down with somebody’s son and building our family and empire together.
So, here’s to my Dirty Thirties – a decade of abundant life, love, and dreams coming true!
Yours – but mine first,
Hey! Hey!
Welcome to adulthood 🤗
Thank you bhuti – it’s nice to be here 🤗
Great read hey!! Hope your 30’s are filled with adventure 😇😇
So glad you enjoyed it bhuti – here here 🥂
Welcome to the 3rd floor Aphelele, hope it treats you well my angel, and brings you great opportunities.
Thank you so much – hoping for the best 🙌🏾
I wish you all the best and great prosperity going into your 30’s. I hope it is a great time for you! Happy Birthday!!!
Thank you so much & I hope so too 🙌🏾
Welcome to it Aphsie. Your shares are always so light and airy, easy to read. Even the hard topics. Keep going and growing girl❤️
So glad you enjoy your reads – many thanks 🤍
This is so brave, honest, profound and coming from your heart. May God grant you all your wishes. Romans 5: 4 – 5 says, ‘ we’re experiencing hardship so as to be made strong and patient. We are more than conqourers at the end of the day. What a beautiful read!!😍❤
Yes & amen – thank you so much Ma 😘
Happy birthday Aphsie! Here’s to A Blessed and Joyous year ahead 🥂😍
Thank you so much sis – I’m excited for all the blessings and joy this year has in store. Here-here 🥂✨
It can be a bit daunting to enter into a new decade, but the 30s can be a wonderful time of life. I’m wishing you all the best, and a very Happy 31st Birthday!
Happy Birthday! I hope your 30s treat you well!